Camping and Seeing God

This summer, our family went on a long-awaited camping trip. After being confined in-place for almost 2 years, it was good to be out and driving around. Mind you, we do live in a beautiful place which made most of the confinement bearable, but as a family, we were happy to be in the road again. Prices for hotels were going to be quite high, so we decided to camp. Fortunately, we found a cool tent for 4 people on sale at InterSport! We bought a few more items, and then we were off.

Now, you should understand that because this is Europe, “camping” is not quite the same as what we are used to in Canada, and even the USA. We pitched in between big RVs and trailers wherever we went. But, despite the non-wild feeling of the places, it was good to be sleeping under the sky, with fresh air, and the same midnight stumble to the central bathroom for a bathroom stop. We all had a great time, and didn’t even have any family fights setting up the tent, and taking it down. THAT was actually a lot of work, thus we have no pictures of it because by the time it was up, or down, we were ready to get in it, or ready to leave.

We camped a bit on our way to the yearly WEC conference, and for this I am grateful. I heard the news my mother’s health was poor, and that she might pass into God’s presence soon. We tried to see if the kids and I could get back in time, but it was impossible. So, Aug 11 my mother did die, and went to be with Jesus, and reunited with her hubby. It was a heavy blow. All of us were stunned. We had postponed a video chat just a week earlier, thinking we would chat after the conference. Well, here it is 2 weeks or so later, and we are home, but the shock is still there. Please pray for my family, and for those of my brother and sister, as we all press on in a world without our parents.

Cookes Overseas, this time in Paris.

We visited Paris after the conference with a goal to visit Uighur restaurants. We were aching for some good spicy food. We found three, and ate at each, one per night. Oh! You can check out my IG account to see the restaurant fronts if you want. When we were first considering coming to France, we of course had put Paris on our list of potential places to live. Unfortunately, it wasn’t an option, partly because of how international the city is. But we are always impressed by (ready for something that sounds silly) how many French people are there! We rarely talked with anyone but French people, so it was a relief, in a way, to rediscover that the French capital is still very French and not only or primarily international.

It was good to get home eventually. The kids discovered that they are not as small and compact as the last time we went on a long car trip! So, if God wills, we will be looking into buying a larger vehicle (we don’t have a car, and in fact we’ve never had a vehicle when we’ve been overseas!). We had to go retrieve our two guinea pigs, Sunddee and Fizzgigg, from a kind lady who watched them for us. The giggly pigs were happy to see us! And, we were back into a routine, of sorts. Cleaning, sorting, and also getting ready for school.

So, I will end this post with a small request, one which applies to many of you too. Please pray as Liberty and Van re-enter school. Liberty is starting an important year in the French school system, the last year of her academic division – college. Van is in fact starting his first year of the same division, college. So, there will be new and bigger stresses for each. Due to laïcité there is very little content about God, which also means that the students, their home lives, and the entire atmosphere, is very godless. There is lots of immorality. They also deal with a surprising amount of anti-foreigner sentiments. Yes, its true! Despite how “western” and advanced and open France is, there is a constant stream of anti-foreigner feelings, including a particular anti-Americanism. It is pretty tough at times for our kids. But I am proud of them. Even though at times it seems it would be easier if they weren’t Christian, they both do their best to stand against sexual immorality, cheating, bullying, and even despair (suicide is not uncommon amongst the student body). And this is even a Catholic school, where you would think there would be a little more awareness and seeking of God, if not spirituality. But when the teachers are cruel, mock students, and care little for spiritual things, and the kids come from a home-life which also doesn’t include God, what can you expect. Pray for them!! And for the students and teachers.

Another delay

Well, this seems familiar. Once more we are facing a delay of our original departure date! We had naively thought we would depart Canada for France in late June. Well, to apply for a long-term visa for France one has to actually fill out an application form online which results in you being assigned a date on which an interview for the visa takes place. The form to fill out is multi-page, and each page would stall for us as there was some detail being asked fo that we didn’t have, or know if it applied to us. We would write to a few places to try to get answers and most time the replies were not that helpful. So back to form online and voila, suddenly we could go to teh next page even htough the missing info wasn’t supplied. So, is it needed? Or no? Will we find out at the interview?

Anyway, at the end of this online application form the final pop up window tells me that there is a 30 day wait between the completion of this form and the actual interview. WHAT?? If this had been the first pop-up or shared bit of info we would have gone through it much more speedily.

As it is, our visa interviews take place July 18. Each of us gets 30 minutes. Even Liberty and Van. There is a lengthy list of things we need to bring, but the details missing from the online form worry me. Please pray about this.

Hamilton Harbour

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we have been able to visit Hamilton harbour, and take lovely bike rides here and there. Each time we stay here as the kids grow older they discover more things about Canada. For example, we have usually had a car when we are home, but not this time. This has meant taking the bus… just like in China! But we’ve never taken the bus here and at first it seemed trickier than China. In China you just sort of barge onto the bus and toss money at the driver. Here, people are in lines, they move slowly onto the bus, and the bus drivers are friendly. Wow, what a change.

Our bus stop

We all miss the lively street activity you can find in China, but here we’ve enjoyed the odd fun thing, like face painting at a restaurant! There was a lady giving free face paintings to any kid who wanted it. Of course our kids did!

Liberty the Leopard

Van, the more traditional leopard

Ontario and Texas

Well, here we are.  We are back! It is always a strange process, coming back. When you’ve spent 2 or more years of your lives in other countries, dealing with the idiosyncrasies of life there, and made a life complete with habits and patterns and rhythms, and then leave it all: It is always an adjustment.

Fishing in Texas

For one thing, you return to a place wherein you already had a life and it is easy to get back into the rhythm of that past life. But many aspects of that life have changed. The stores have closed or changed. There are new traffic laws. The prices seem higher than you remember. And the lives of the people you know have changed too. You can’t ask the same questions as 2 years ago, but you aren’t sure yet about what the new questions ought to be.

And when you are the kid, the process is even stranger! You have memories, but nothing clear, so this return home is sort of the start of a new journey, but not really. Your parents have their memories that include you, but you don’t have them. You want to go to this or that place but since your parents have done it already maybe you won’t be able to do it. You miss the snacks you used to buy at the local shop that you could walk to, just you and your brother. But you can’t do that here since you have to drive to the corner store, and once there you need to be careful because a couple of street people are having an emotional breakdown or fight over stolen drug paraphenalia!

At the same time, it is so wonderfully blessed to be back in the land of the free (that is both Canada and the USA). You don’t have to wonder if you are being followed. There are no listening devices in your home. Cops won’t stop you on the street every 400 meters/yards demanding to see your smartphone. The food you buy is (generally) safe. The people are… friendly! They don’t stare at you! They say hello! You don’t need to go to a central police station and register your arrival! Wow!

There are churches! With crosses! You can pray in public! You can sing a praise song out loud. You can read a bible… anywhere! We are so thankful for all the good here in North America.

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Family in Canada

We got back to Ontario in February, and stayed for one month. We are now in Texas visiting Michelle’s family for one month. In April we will return to Ontario for 2.5 months of visitation and prepping for the next move. Do you remember, or know, what that next move is?

France

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A Light in the Darkness

Summer 2017

Here we are a the end of Summer 2017. It has been a full summer for us, and we hope it has been for you too.

Zooming along chinese roads chinese style!

We traveled this summer to a small village 18 hours north of us to visit a student of Shane’s, and her family. It was an arduous journey with many police checks along the way. At each one Michelle and I had to register at that station, and then stand side by side holding up our passports with the ID page visible so the police could take a picture. However, it was worth it once we arrived at the student’s home. Her family was initially nervous because they had never met, nor hosted, foreigners before, much less ones who spoke their language – Kazak. But it was a good time. Liberty and Van especially loved roaming around the property with the younger siblings and checking out the animals such as chickens, chicks, cats, dogs, geese, goats, sheep, and a sleeping guard dog. One highlight was driving for about 3 hours towards the border of Kazakstan in order to watch a 20 km horse race, and the riders were mostly boys aged 10-15.

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The racetrack

Speaking of Kazakstan, we finally made a trip over the border to visit Almaty. You may recall me spending summers there from 1997-2002. There is now no need for a visa for many nations, so we were glad to skip the lengthy visa application process and simply show up at the border! Previous years required the better part of a day to get out of China, and into Kazakstan. This time we were through both sides in…. 1.5 hours. Unbelievable how much more smooth the process is now. While in Almaty Liberty could visit her best friend from earlier Urumqi days.

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We stayed in an AirBnB residence beside a giant mall. Inside this giant mall was a Starbucks and a McDonalds. Now, you can choose to go to these places anytime you want, but for us, it was an amazing experience. The province we live in has had no familiar business like these for years. So it was a treat to order a Grande Bold, in Kazak, as well as Big Mac, in Kazak. It was dizzying really.

On the bus to the border

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Liberty and Van had a great summer, grateful for a break from home school. We all went on many bike rides around the city. Probably one of our favourite memories of this season will be of riding around dinner time (5ish pm) and then stopping for our evening meal at a restaurant, eating a meal, then continuing the bike ride as the sun slowly sets and the street lights come on. Ili is actually fairly bike-friendly, so there are many streets where we can ride on bike lanes. There are still people to dodge, and e-bikes zipping around, but overall it is a safe and fun type of outing. There is also a pond full of goldfish, a turtle, frogs, and it is a fun place to play around. Van also learned how to rollerblade, and Liberty got better at it.

The Pond

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BBQ on the riverbank

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Mid-Summer

family biking

Here it is mid-summer and we can’t believe how fast the time has gone.

Here it is mid-summer and it seems like we only just arrived. We realized that we have spent so much of our life overseas in Urumqi that we had developed something of a routine, in a good sense. We knew where to buy things, we knew where to meet people, we knew the buses, the traffic rhythm, the nooks and crannies. But here in Ili, after 4 months, we feel like we still don’t know it well. And it isn’t even all that big compared to Urumqi. I’ve in fact bicycled around the city, basically, only 25 km or so.

bike ride

 

eating eating

But we have noticed, bit by bit, people recognize us, we sort of have a few usual places to eat out, we have found an art store to which we make regular treks to buy brushes and paints, we ride our bikes along the crazy roads. It is slowly becoming familiar.

 

I am unfortunately still overweight which means finding clothes that fit is a challenge. Just nearby we walked by an aptly named store, I swallowed my pride, and we went in. Imagine our surprise when the clothes in this store turned out to be TOO LARGE for me!

fat man's wear

Here it is mid-summer and already Michelle is planning for planning for the next school year! The kids are sure gonna be good learners!

sun rays